Monday, April 13, 2009

MY WISH CHART...stepping stone towards positivity

These days i am making my wish chart and i am so excited!!!Now what is this wish chart???well its a chart of all my wishes..whatever i want in my life-material or immaterial things.OK let me explain.i have got cuttings of all things from A TO Z on a sheet.These are the things i desire.it can be anything like for eg. BMW, palatial house, a happy family,a holiday in Ibiza,a healthy life,a good job, a good looking boyfriend...and so on..we all know for desires sky is the limit..then i pasted all these cuttings on a big sheet and hanged it on the wall above my bed.I take a glimpse of my wish chart everyday whenever i get time..chiefly before i go to sleep and immediately after getting up in the morning..its said that at this time one's subconscious mind is most dynamic and it pilots you towards whatever you think particularly at this time...believe me this is true,whatever happens in our life good or bad is more or less because of this mechanism..if you think..i can do it and i will do it..you would definitely do it..and if you think u can't do it then you will fail for sure.you have to keep your spirits high no matter what all obstructions come in between..anyways for me this wish chart is working!!!the only thing is you have to believe in it STRONGLY...if you follow it spiritedly you would feel things happening to you..you don't have to run towards your desires..they will come to you.As your wishes are touching veracity,you can replace them by new wishes..by doing so you will always think positive..negativity will not have any room in your mind.it would not even peep inside :)..isn't it at your ease??? i think it is...may be i am sounding little petite but to accomplish great things, we must not only act,but also dream;not only plan,but also believe....

amrita

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

enigmatic life.....

Why is this life so so perplexed???sometimes i feel life is like a jigsaw of several mismatching pieces and it seems to be a herculean task to join all these pieces right...why does it happen????when you want to be happy u can't be...Situations around you makes you feel dejected...why all good things comes to an end???after giving your 100% also, you don't even get 10% in return.In this kind of situation you commit mistakes instead of knowing the right things.Whenever i sit alone thinking about these situations,i just keep thinking thinking and thinking with no elucidation..this irritates me further.Finally i close my eyes and say to myself- "everyday is a new beginning",each morning comes with a beam of positivity and divine showers...one should not give up,just follow the light of guidance which comes from within.Then i overlook these petty things believing ---every cloud has a silver lining---

amrita

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Just another passing thought...

Today while coming back from Bangalore to pune,i saw an appalling sight at the Bangalore international airport.There was a young foreign person who was wearing a pair of shoes with a color scheme of SAFFRON,WHITE and GREEN,with the navy blue wheel on the white patch..can u beat it???its the same color scheme of our INDIAN national flag.Seeing this state i felt so miserable.How could he insult our prestigious flag??As far as i know, nobody is allowed to use the tricolor as a festoon or rosette.It is a matter of concern for the respect of our country and to our nation.The flag symbolizes freedom, freedom for us and for other people.But it doesn't mean that one should disrespect and misuse this freedom.I don't know how others would have reacted to this.......
amrita & ankita

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

10 Things about Guys that may annoy their GFs. :)

  1. Making their presence become over presence. O' that bugs a lot. Its a delight when you have space in relationship else it becomes suffocating.
  2. Calling hundred times a day. You fall short of things and the repeatitions of "love you" and "miss you" creates boredom. Limited but loving chit chats are considered good for healthy loving relationship.
  3. Opposite to the above mentioned point, Ignorance is something girls cant stand. They need to be told every now and then that how much you love them. Make calls when you feel your girl must be expecting your phone. But ofcourse no over calling.
  4. Be natural in your talks. Girls usually dont like men being overtly filmy or poetic. Bring your gentleman part in front of them. Being natural is all what is required. Like when you talk to your other guyfriends, or to your family, you are totally Mr. Original. So be that ways with your girl as well.
  5. Dont mess up with your communication. Need not to be a stylo while talking to her or to her friends. That counts for negative marking. Girls like mature guys.
  6. Be a lover when you are with her. It always works. Girls like to get pampered.
  7. Make sure you dont spoil your intimate moments by asking foolish questions, or by doing things that make her feel uncomfortable. Afterall going slow is no harm than not going any further.
  8. In the starting period of your relationship avoid the family drama i.e.; "I told my mom about us."...."My aunt wants to meet you." That is scary you know. Girls are scared of commitments. This stage comes very late. Go slow as we say. Not all relationships reach commitment. But what so ever is the length of the bond. Make it easy and beautiful.
  9. Dont just talk about yourself, your works, your pressures, your achievements & bla bla bla. Girls usually like good listener kind of guys. We dont advice you to be totally a listener though, but yes listen to her issues. Take interest in what she says. [Girls even like to discuss which colour nail paint they should wear ;) ]
  10. And finally dont let any ego come your way.

Have a happy relationship. :)

Ankita & Amrita.

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Slumdog Millionaire grabbing millions!! But what about the slums and the dogs??

The grand victory of the Slumdog Millionaire makes us proud of the Indian cinema, though not Indian totally as we had the hands of the amazing foriegn director, Mr. Danny Boyle. The cast was perfect and so was the picturization. The songs, the music creates magic on every player. From children to adults to our oldies, all humming the 'Jai Ho' number to the pat of their hearts. What a movie! What a cover story! It surely must have earned millions, billions, trillions and so on.
But wait! What about the slums? What about the real dogs? What have they earned? Our claps in the multiplexes or our triumphic howls at the Oscars. Do they know what Oscar refers to? Do they even know their story has bagged India loud winnings? Perhaps the answer is NO. The slumdogs are still the underdogs, the unpreviledged, poor lot. Its the irony of our society that we bank our profits on the names of such creepy,poor people and they dont even get the slightest idea of their debt to us. What are we suppose to do? What has the film fraternity to do with the issue? Lets discuss this. What are your words on this irony report.

Thanx!
Ankita & Amrita