Wednesday, March 4, 2009

10 Things about Guys that may annoy their GFs. :)

  1. Making their presence become over presence. O' that bugs a lot. Its a delight when you have space in relationship else it becomes suffocating.
  2. Calling hundred times a day. You fall short of things and the repeatitions of "love you" and "miss you" creates boredom. Limited but loving chit chats are considered good for healthy loving relationship.
  3. Opposite to the above mentioned point, Ignorance is something girls cant stand. They need to be told every now and then that how much you love them. Make calls when you feel your girl must be expecting your phone. But ofcourse no over calling.
  4. Be natural in your talks. Girls usually dont like men being overtly filmy or poetic. Bring your gentleman part in front of them. Being natural is all what is required. Like when you talk to your other guyfriends, or to your family, you are totally Mr. Original. So be that ways with your girl as well.
  5. Dont mess up with your communication. Need not to be a stylo while talking to her or to her friends. That counts for negative marking. Girls like mature guys.
  6. Be a lover when you are with her. It always works. Girls like to get pampered.
  7. Make sure you dont spoil your intimate moments by asking foolish questions, or by doing things that make her feel uncomfortable. Afterall going slow is no harm than not going any further.
  8. In the starting period of your relationship avoid the family drama i.e.; "I told my mom about us."...."My aunt wants to meet you." That is scary you know. Girls are scared of commitments. This stage comes very late. Go slow as we say. Not all relationships reach commitment. But what so ever is the length of the bond. Make it easy and beautiful.
  9. Dont just talk about yourself, your works, your pressures, your achievements & bla bla bla. Girls usually like good listener kind of guys. We dont advice you to be totally a listener though, but yes listen to her issues. Take interest in what she says. [Girls even like to discuss which colour nail paint they should wear ;) ]
  10. And finally dont let any ego come your way.

Have a happy relationship. :)

Ankita & Amrita.

4 comments:

  1. I was wondering why no one commented on this topic...9 followers...so...maybe they all agreed to all your points..or are in no mood to contradict you...or simply 'yui'... but as usual I want to discuss on them...After all they are under Label:Guide...so maybe you can guide me through my queries..rt?
    Pt no 1 to 3...what if I feel my girl must be expecting my calls every hour? Means...how could I know when she is expecting my call...will she be giving me some sort of timetable for a week that I'll be expecting your call at such and such time...OR...is she going to indicate me using telepathy...how can I form a line b/w ignorance and over indulgence... Really confused...so go ahead with the solution... All other points...agree to them...
    and ya you too...'Have a happy relationship. :)'

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  2. well this is written keepin in mind the girls of today..they want their space in life..and points may differ from person to person..

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  3. Yep of course...m also not interested in girls of 60s...I asked for the solution as if what should be the demarcation line b/w ignorance and over indulgence after reading the label Guide...But seems Deux just wanna put forward there points...I know points differ from person to person...but title is such "10 things about guys that may annoy there GFs"... so I thought there may be some generalities about gals...else much better title could be "10 things about guys that may annoy us if we are there GFs"....Neways whatever..just the perplexed jigsaw of words... You people have a happy relationship..:)

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  4. no generalities about gals..its just most of the girls want their bfs to follow these prescribed rules :)
    well ignorance n overindulgence u hav to decide keepin in mind ur girl..wat she wants n needs :)
    cheers

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