Why is this life so so perplexed???sometimes i feel life is like a jigsaw of several mismatching pieces and it seems to be a herculean task to join all these pieces right...why does it happen????when you want to be happy u can't be...Situations around you makes you feel dejected...why all good things comes to an end???after giving your 100% also, you don't even get 10% in return.In this kind of situation you commit mistakes instead of knowing the right things.Whenever i sit alone thinking about these situations,i just keep thinking thinking and thinking with no elucidation..this irritates me further.Finally i close my eyes and say to myself- "everyday is a new beginning",each morning comes with a beam of positivity and divine showers...one should not give up,just follow the light of guidance which comes from within.Then i overlook these petty things believing ---every cloud has a silver lining---
amrita
nice one..
ReplyDeletei wrote something on similar lines too.. check out my blog as well
http://gj-thoughts.blogspot.com/2009/01/questions-n-questions.html
Good one amrita...I think you wrote about everyone's life...I differ at you at some points though not because I have to...just because my manager is staring at me from quite a long time and I have to fool him by hitting my fingers on the keyboard...So bear with whatever bakwas I write...Hmmm...I don't agree to your point where you mentioned all good things come to end...and you don't get even 10% return for your 100% efort...Actually I didn't understood what you meant by good thing(some people say m dumb)...what gud things...materialistics... piece of art, literature, architecture...or spritual...memory, love, friendship...??? I once read one book "Once upon a time there was something"...have you heard its name? No..Actually there was only one piece of that literature...and that too excellent one...that I burnt after reading...Its author also died in an accident...But has that gud thing(book) came to an end... nopes...even if one person has read that and praised it....that piece will be alive with him forever..Yes forever even after his death..'cause I believe in life after death.. so u'll have to take it that way...and ya do you think feelings..gud feelings die...maybe.. but I don't think...you Love someone...it is eternal...and if not then it is not Love...same hold for friendship...you may have different views here...maybe thinking me to be quite oldish... Your brain you are free to... Do you want me to come to 10%..100% point...leave that..my manager is gone...so I should also go for ma coffee...and ya...thanx for providing me this platform...And one more thing...Keep smiling you two...Indeed every dark cloud has silver lining and if not, then too be happy it ll rain...dance to the tip-tip...
ReplyDeleteoh..first of all i must thank you for the comment u made..well i am talking bout all the things happen in life whether it is materialistic,love,friendship,art etc..i feel in everyone's life this kind of phase comes,where one feel as if he/she is in middle of nowhere.i indicated life as so stymie coz it is the truth.n it does happen when u give your 100 times u get 10 times only..in some cases it happens, may be because of others but it happens.
ReplyDeleteabout gud things come to an end..i wud add,when ever good things happen we enjoy them but life runs in cycle,so when bad time comes the good phase goes n so on..you can take the eg., of the global meltdown which has hampered the economy of almost all the countries.moreover it has affected the life of all the people.
well i did not read the book you mentioned..I'll try to get my hand on it..
and yea clouds will pour one day :)
keep posting:)
life is as enigmatic as u allow it to become....
ReplyDeleteThe controls of life although not always are in your hands only.....
the idea is to press the right ones and press harder for better results,....
as the saying goes..no short cuts for hardwork,...
Do your best and take controls...
CHEERS!!!
hey dimpy..
ReplyDeleteWell it seems dat u were frustated wid lyf at d time wen u wrote blog!! dun think dat evn if u gve 100% u get 10 % in return! Expectations r d root cause of suffrn...dun "Expect".jus do hardwrk n hv d same nevr say die attitude.. n leave rest of d thins 2 d god!nd if u think lyf is so perplexed den its gud!! 'coz
d perplexity of lyf arises frm there being too many interesting things in it for us to be interested properly in any of them.
So u can say dat Perplexity is the beginning of knowledge. "When d goin gets tough! d tough gets going!!" all d best!!
CHEERS!
ahem ahem..
ReplyDeletesomeone is frustrated too i guess :)
yes you are right naman..hardwork always pays.
but luck matters too..
True Naman....
ReplyDelete"karmany evadhikaras te ma phalesu kadacana,
ma karma-phala-hetur bhur ma te sango 'stv akarmani"
-Srimad Bhagwad Geeta(Ch.02, verse 47)
Can anything be greater than Krishna's word "u certainly have the right for prescribed activities but never at anytime in their results. U should never be motivated by the results of the actions, nor should there be any attachment in not doing your prescribed activities." ? Of course not...but can we really stop expecting and then frustrating(in ur words) for not getting what we have strived for?
Kanha teri leela kaun samajh paaya???
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ReplyDeleteEvery one has his own philosophy for life and I don't want to contradict anyone, but could not resist to comment on this either.....
ReplyDeleteI would question this ideology of "not expecting anything and just put in your best efforts". Its just some quixotic phrase and good to hear or write, with no implications practically (think about it...is it possible... being a human)...and why do we leave everything to GOD , instead of accepting the results of our actions...why should anyone kill his expectations...just because he can't face the consequences of failure...Expectations and dreams are supposed to be the driving force...even if they are too crazy...even for thoughts.
I do agree that all good things come to an end ,but its up to us to accept that it has ended ...or try and take it to a next level. Its in our had to cherish those moments. Of course there will be times when things go wrong and we can do nothing except waiting for circle to complete...sometimes longer than usual...and its on the individual to find means to get thru.[I guess a good option is the one we are doing right now...to go all out writing about life.. :) ]
So my take on the situation is...
Never take life too seriously, no one gets out alive anyways...live for the moment and enjoy every bit of it....coz every moment is a short story with a happy ending.
Cheers to life...